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Thursday, May 24, 2018

Monday-Friday in outfits || What I wear to university!

DISCLAIMER:
  1. My university doesn't have a very strict dress code. We can wear shorts, flip flops, and tshirts to class. 
  2. I am by far the least stylish and the least fashionable person, I don't and will never claim that I know anything about styling and fashion. I make this post just for fun.
  3. I am ugly, don't be too mean.
  4. I don't have any branded or expensive items, everything in my wardrobe is definitely not fashion blog worthy.
  5. I am trying my best.
  6. I do not and will not hesitate to repeat the same clothes and style. 

Sunday, April 22, 2018

the salad is perfectly fine without bits of chopped bacon

I didn't know if I ever said this in this blog but... I have a confession to make.

Vegan is not the same thing as vegetarian.

Monday, March 5, 2018

Blogger reacts to Indonesian Nursery Rhymes.


Ada yang familiar dengan lagu ini?

Beberapa minggu yang lalu, saya nemenin mama saya belanja di salah satu chain supermarket besar. Supermarket ini memiliki dua lantai dan kebetulan barang-barang yang mama saya cari adanya di lantai dua. Nah, lagu yang dimainkan di lantai dua inilah yang menginispirasi saya untuk membuat review lagu ini. Istilah jaman now-nya bukan review lagi tapi, jobless blogger reacts to Indonesian nursery rhyme!

Di lantai dua supermarket ini, lagu anak ayam berkotek ini diputar on-loop, ga bohong. Saya dan mama saya berada di lantai dua itu selama kurang lebih satu setengah jam dan satu jam dari satu setengah jam tersebut lagu anak ayam berkotek it uterus diputar. Setengah jam sisanya, supermarket ini memainkan lagu Happy dari Pharrell Williams on-loop.

Playlist supermarket ini perlu di update. Seiring berjalannya waktu, lagu Anak Ayam ini memiliki banyak versi, versi baru, versi modern, versi lama, dll. Mungkin, in the depths of internet, ada juga versi EDMnya. Bayangin coba versi EDM jdubz jdubz dari lagu Anak Ayam ini.

Video yang saya lampirkan dalam post ini adalah versi yang diputar di supermarket tersebut.



Disclaimer: sumpah, saya seratus persen ga mabok pas nulis ini.

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

victim blaming is wrong and this is how ridiculous it sounds.


So. Hello everyone.

I know the hottest topic right now is Hollywood actresses speaking up about their experience of harassment conducted by powerful men in the entertainment industry. Most of the actresses only spoke up because society has been cultivating this culture called rape culture. A culture that exists, in my opinion, because society allows men to use and wield their power. I am not saying that women can’t be abuser because they can be an abuser but- it’s a long and winding road to go down and I don’t have the time or energy to discuss it in this post. It is basically a culture that allows trash feels powerful through inappropriate behaviors. Women, too, can be an abuser and a sexual predator. So. The world is trash. People are trash. I am shit, you are shit, everyone is shit. The world will never get better unless people start to hold everyone, especially boys, accountable for their actions.

Omg, Audrey, you are such a man-hater. Why did you say especially boys you just hate men because you never had a boyfriend. Have a chocolate, woman!

Yeap, I am sure someone out there would say that. I say especially boys because girls have been held accountable for their actions since they were little. For example, in Harvey-what’s his face’s case, in Delevigne’s statement (yes, Cara Delevigne) she said that she felt guilty because she had been molested by Harvey-what’s his face. Girls have been held accountable for everything that happened to them even though it’s literally not their fault.

Even Michelle Obama herself said that we love our sons but we raise our daughters.

In this post I am not going to delve in too deep about the whole rape culture and victim blaming. This post is just going to scratch the surface about victim blaming.

These are short examples how ridiculous victim blaming sounds.  

Oh, that boy pulled your hair on the playground? That’s because you have hair!

Oh, that boy made fun of your bra strap that is showing? That’s because you wear bra! Be ashamed of it!

Oh, that boy lifted up your skirt? That’s because you didn’t wear safety shorts underneath!

Oh, you got catcalled on the street? That’s because you wear jeans and have legs!

Oh, you got groped in the club? That’s because you wear that skirt!

Oh, that man yelled at you how bad he wants to put his genitalia in yours? That’s a compliment, you should just take it!

Oh, you got molested? That’s because you didn’t want to give him your number!

Yeap.